Check what a guy can write on behalf of a woman!This man provides his authentic two cents on dating self , he seems calm, cool and collected… Time will tell if he really is all that and more. Inspirationist, humble, gentleman , caring are few attributes tagged along to his name. Buckle up , he is a writer on a journey of unraveling thoughts.
In a brief conversation,
a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: ‘What
kind of man are you looking for?’
She sat quietly for a
moment before looking him in the eye & asking, ‘Do you
really want to know?’
Reluctantly, he said, ‘Yes. She began to expound,
‘As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself? (
I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man… or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, ‘I am not referring to money. I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.
She said, ‘I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need keepsake memories of conversations and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man. (
I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally
yoked. Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for
disaster. (Belief in Christ gives the sugar rush)
I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’t need a financial burden.
I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go
through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me
I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.
I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.
I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must
respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive…he just has to be
And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will
find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be
able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn
to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can’t
help a man if he can’t help himself.
When she finished storytelling and looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, ‘You are asking a lot. She replied, “I’m worth a lot”.
This man goes by many names as i explained earlier but we mostly call him Chris Ongeimungu.(Reverend DJ)